Monday, September 18, 2017

Anniversary weekend

I think this was shared hair after bath...
Hike day, celebrating Anniversary
















I took this photo because it was significant that I 
was carrying Bobo's backpack for him.
These were some of my thoughts....

Such a difficult student at times. He won't do his work and has a million excuses.  " i feel sick. I'm tired. " "it is hard to transition to school."  

Or he will say, "this is easy."  He won't get the answer and then get the answer and if I don't hear it the first time, I am admonished for not hearing him and I get, "I said that!"  

It is exhausting. I want to tell him how exhausting he is- but I'm not supposed to. I get to be the bigger person. The mom.

It feels like a mountain I climb everyday and not only am I carrying the gear and him on my back but he is complaining the whole way up. It would be one thing to teach a "struggling student who is trying to grasp an idea student" but when you add the layers of resistance = exhausting!  
So I had written the above words before this hike and
then realized, I get to carry Bobo's pack but he
beat me up the mountain.  Hang in there mama.
It was good for me to witness, a metaphor 
that was allowed to change.

We all made it!  And that is good!











Dev's art shots














Tried a new bakery...with a grumpy employer.
Dev and I love this lunch at Whole Foods!



Feeling a little independent....
Good day!