Saturday, July 28, 2012

A "Fanncy Nancy" Party

So I read about this idea on another moms blog how they acted out what Fancy Nancy and her family did in this picture book.  Fancy Nancy wanted her family to be fancy like she is, so they all dressed up in dress up clothes and went out to eat.

I loved Deveraux's face when we surprised her by reading the book in the car and then all of our dress up clothes were in the living room.
mom and I had a really good laugh over this one!

"Oh Yeah"

Ready for ice cream!

That's my bat...man!

"cheers!"
Deveraux had this funny idea
I love to just laugh at the silly...
We had a great time!

4th of July 2012



So Andrew had the four of us all climb on top of the van to watch fireworks in a small town on the way home from San Francisco, it was just better for us not stay in the city and head towards home.  Mom was warm right below us in the car.  We were just hoping we were parked where we could see them.  So a big tree was a little in the way, but we still saw some beautiful ones!  I just love fireworks!

When the fire works were over, the car was silent as we drove away and then Bobo says, "why were we sitting on the roof of our car?"

So....Fourth of July!  A bit of a hard day turned good.  We were in San Francisco and hoping to see fire works that night over the bridge.  Mom was just not feeling good all day.  In the morning, I had a great run along the sidewalk where I will do the marathon.  It was fun being in a city in the morning when everyone and everything is slowly getting started and emerging.  Then Deveraux, mom, and I had a good walk around Pier 39 which was nice.  We went back to the hotel for a quick swim.  Then we packed up hoping to catch a couple of museums that were free that day...well one museum we couldn't get to and the other was closed.  We stopped on a neighborhood street in Sausilito to "re-group".  While "re-grouping" and trying to decide what we were going to do, I wanted to take some 4th of July photos and while we were taking them, Deveraux poked the side of her eye with her flag stick.  She just missed her eye.  So mom. Bobo, and I went to find ice and a bathroom.  This definitely wasn't the picture I had imagined for 4th of July in this big city with my mom and my family by my side.  But this is where we were...walking down a random street with bodies that don't always "cooperate".
"Christ in me, the hope of glory"
We stopped and prayed on those steps where all those pictures are taken above and just gave the remains of the day to Him... I was reminded who was in charge and it is He who lasts and we are so very weak on our own...and it is okay to not be able to see some great twin fireworks show over the Golden Gate Bridge. 
I also saw how much my husband cared for all of us.  He was so patient just hanging on those steps, kind, he "went with the flow", he tried to create a light mood, he was so attentive and kind to Deveraux and just held her.  I received a whole new appreciation for this man I have been married to for almost 18 years.  Sometimes you have to go on a trip to have things not initially flow to receive one thing.
I received a reminder of who God is in our lives everyday and a reminder of the kind of man I married.
Yeahoo!  4th of July!

Woods and Beach time

We have great little wooded path in our neighborhood...we went on a walk and made it a savanger hunt.  Deveraux made a list of things we hoped to find....
to the hunt we go!



So the setting was beautiful, the company wonderful..but we got " maxed out" in the end.  It was one of those times that you want everyone to have a lovely time but we ended with frustration and tears on the way home,  I couldn't just post lovely pictures and not tell the whole story.  It was a great beginning....but Deveraux wanted to go a certain way, I said, "not now" and she didn't like it.   I wouldn't budge, she wouldn't budge and it wasn't so much fun anymore.  I looked back on that time knowing I could have made different choices and said different things, sometimes I want to just say, "no, you do what I say", sometimes that is okay but I can also be stubborn.  Many times there is a way of still being in charge but helping your kids and the situation not escalate.  I know where my heart is and I knew that day I was mad because they had "spoiled" this lovely time mom was having and I was just mad.  I was operating out of that anger and that wasn't good.  Then not only do you have your children's behavior to deal with...but your own.  My children expose my heart in both the good and the ugly...as I expose theirs...I am glad we are in it for the long haul!
Beach time


We had a beach barbecue with Andrew's work

Andrew's directior of sales at they Hyatt, Giselle and her husband Tony.  She has been so kind to us and loves our children!





Bobo was tired that night and Deveraux was in heaven as he wanted to sit on her lap..and stay!