Tuesday, June 14, 2016

First Sabbath

We celebrated out first Sabbath as a family the end
of February.  Sabbath was something that had been
laid on my heart through conversation with friends,
a blog I follow, and a recent sermon at church.
It was time.
I collected bits and pieces from all the avenues Sabbath came to
us to begin to form our own.  Starting with a Sabbath desert.
The kiddos alternate picking the desert.

Our hope (we come close) is to begin Sabbath at
sundown on Friday to sundown on Saturday.
We light candles for our Sabbath blessing and for
each child present.  We also wash our hands
in a bowl to signify purifying our hearts.  I begin by
reading a Sabbath prayer.  Then Dev reads a verse
and Andrew blesses her, next Bobo, lastly
Cambria and I receive a blessing from Andrew.
Then we eat a yummy meal.  We have a white tablecloth and we
linger over dinner a little longer.  We share in a couple of readings
and if I have something to read them about what Sabbath is all about.
Then we have communion and lastly our desert.
After dinner just depends on the night.  One night we
took a walk, another was a card game, one night was
American Idol.  On this particular night, the kids did a
presentation for Drew on their imaginary islands.




On Saturday mornings of Sabbath, we try to have a nice
breakfast all together on the lanai.  Since we began we
have had Sabbath 2 times a month, this seems like an
attainable goal. 




Someone had my camera!


Bobo's first Christmas outfit.

 
The Saturday of Sabbath involves almost always
the beach.  Since beginning Sabbath this has
been such a highlight and I believe has gotten
us to the beach more.  The goal is to not
work too much, so it helps to leave the house.
Our friends told us Sabbath should give us a taste
of heaven.  So it isn't about legalism and rules,
instead fun and together.
The reason we wouldn't go to the other side and run
all our errands for the week isn't because we want
to be legalistic, but because usually that is not restful
and sometimes that doesn't involve us all being together
instead we usually try to "divide and conquer."
We are still plotting it out as we go (now in the month
of June) and what works best for our family.
We as parents cannot find complete rest especially
with a baby but we have certain intentions with the
24 hours.  It has helped to talk through the time and
make a plan instead of just falling into one.
So we are intentional and try to include togetherness,
some rest, fun, worship, and a little bit of a different
feel from the rest of the week.
So far, I think we would all say we look forward
to Sabbath.


(took Bobo and Dev here often as we lived across the street
when Bobo was born)
(Dev and Bobo on the same beach)
Its like a 24 hour holiday with the promise that we
all get to be together.


I don't want to say no friend time...we take
each time case by case but the overall goal is
to stay together as a family.

(so funny, she was sleeping on the bed and rolled
off right onto the pillow, I came over and had to take a pic).
We went to get hamburgers on this Saturday night which was
a fun way to end our first Sabbath celebration! 
Our next Sabbath





Funny faces!

A day at Ka'anapali Beach...we stayed a good part of the day
and then went and got dinner to have a picnic on the grass.
I love camping out for awhile at the beach.






Bobo loves to ride the waves that hit the shore,
charging at the wave.  I love how he is sitting like the older boys.









 


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